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Nin Dhallinyaro ah oo laba haween mar kaliya kuwada aroosay magaalada Hargeysa 

Xigasho: Wargeyska Haatuf

HARGEYSA - Waxaa habeen hore magaalada Hargeysa, gaar ahaan degmada Ibraahim Koodbuur, xaafadda Xero-Awr ka dhacay Aroos ka mid ah aroosyada mucjisada ah ee ku cusub dhaqanka Soomaalida, kaas oo uu laba dumar mar keliya uu la wada aqal-galay nin keliyi, xaflad aroosna loo wada qabtay.

Ismaaciil Cismaan Cabdillaahi oo ah wiil dhalinyaro ah waxaa habeen hore goob keliya ku wada aroosay Gaasira Muxumed Xuseen iyo Shukri Cismaan Axmed, iyadoo ay munaasibaddii arooskaas oo ka dhacday xaafadda Xero-Awr ka soo qayb-galay dadweyne aad u farabadan oo aad ula yaabanaa arooskan saddexan.


Waa Caruuskii iyo labadii Caruusadood

Dhacdadan ayaa ah tii labaad ee taariikhda dadka Soomaalida ah lagu arko, ayaa dad badan ku abuurtay layaab, iyadoo qofkaastaba si arkay ugana faalooday.

“Waa calaf inaan labadayda xaas mar soo wada hooyo.” Sidaas waxa yidhi Arooska Ismaaciil Cismaan Cabdillaahi oo ka jawaabayay su’aal la weydiiyay oo ahayd sida uu u dhacay qorshihiisan guurka labada dumar ah.

Dhinaca kalena, labada caruusadood ee xalay Ismaaciil Cismaan la wada-aqalgalay ayaa iyaguna si kooban u sheegay in ay ku qanaxsan yihiin guurkoodan lamaanaha ah, isla markaana ay ku faraxsan yihiin in goob keliya xaflad loogu wada-sameeyo, sey keliyana ay wadaagaan.

Dhacdadaan dhaqanka Soomaalida ku cusub ayaa ah tii labaad ee sannadka gudaheeda ka dhacday Somaliland, gaar ahaan gobolka Hargeysa, iyadoo badhtimihii sannadkan uu aroos kan oo kale ah uu nin keliya laba gabdhood goob keliya kuwada aroosay tuulada Garabis ee koonfur-galbeed kaga beegan magaalada Hargeysa.


Carooskii Hore Ee Tuulada Garabis

Dhaqanka cusub ee ku soo kordhay hab-dhaqankii Soomaalidu lahaan jirtay, ayaa la moodaa inuu hirgalay inkastoo qaybo badan oo bulshada ka mid ahi aanay la dhacsanayn, isla markaana ay saluug badan ka muujiyaan, gaar ahaan dhinaca haweenka oo iyagu u arka inuu meel-ka-dhac ku yahay haweenka, isla markaana xuquuqdii.

Warbixintaan waxaan ka soo xiganay wargeyska Haatuf ee ka soo baxa magaalada Hargeysa



       
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74 comment(s)
@ 12/22/2006 3:35 AM EST
 may allah bless this marraige Amin,, to says Haram you have to be shiikh and have ayah or hathis, i think we should make Dua for this marraige// those who says religion allows to marry up 4 waves but not at same time that is good point, but remember if they agree to marry each other at same time, we can't says haram, example if you have a wife islam says you only be away from her 4 to 6 bilod, but if she agree to be away more then that nobody can says that's Haram, true that prophet mohamed scw says if you married a girl you have to be with her 7 nights, but if they give him permition to stay 3 days or 4 can we really says Haram!!!!!!!!! finally walalayal dadkaan maysinaysan e aan ka gaabsano oo u ducayno, qof kii masaladaan shaki ka galana culumada ha waydiiyan bye
hannahofswe @ 12/21/2006 2:05 PM EST
 salam

It´s redicilous. And stupid. Men who fear Allah dont
do this kind of things. Women has rights, and I feel so
sad that this sisters dont know what rights Islam gives
them. The married couple must be together the first night
and of curse he can not be with them the same night.
This is something that the Prophet and he´s followers
has never done this! It is not the practice of the
prophet! It has never happened in a islamic country
and this only proves that the most ignorant muslims are
in Somalia. If a man does not have enough money to marry
this women at separat weddings, he cannot have enough
money to support them after the wedding. It´s stupid
and I am ashamed of being a somali.

ma´salama
abdalla @ 12/20/2006 1:44 AM EST
 This is really good, only few men can do this and I like it
ilka-case @ 12/19/2006 7:34 PM EST
 The camaruus,nothing wronge,but it's the girls problem because if the women has no self steem, men pray for this type of girls. So the question is why this womens agree to be married same night. The answer is naive, gready and cheap. The man is showing to the worls how much cheap somaliland women or somalia where ever he is from. Easy come easy go.
suhayb @ 12/13/2006 12:36 PM EST
 salan kadib waxaan odhan lahaa in marka hore aan laga dhigin waxan wax cay aha ama diinta muslimka kabaxsan maxaa yeelay waxaad ka dhigteen wax ceeb  maxa yelay ninkani hadii isag iyo habluhu saas isku afgaten dadka qaar ayaa soo qorayaa qaldaamiintii tasina waxaan filayaa wax wanasgan maaha wana cadi hadi ay isaga la noqotay inuu wada arooso habeen qudha xitaa waxaad ka giten dadka dad diintu ku yartahay sida ay u hadlee dadka qaar waan wax wanagsan inaad fikirkaaga ka hadasho laakiin cawydu way reebantahay wa bilahi tawfiiq
ahmedibrahim200 @ 12/12/2006 11:33 PM EST
 what happened are these people did are they insane,or whoever conducted the nikkah is more crazier,please they need to go back to religion please let them not use religion as an excuse for their fantasy
dharkeenley @ 12/6/2006 4:46 PM EST
 kudos to the Caruuska.
Ammar_7 @ 12/4/2006 5:50 PM EST
 Crazy...Crazy...Crazy
Hasna @ 12/1/2006 10:20 PM EST
 Iyaah, lets make something clear first okay. In My opinion there is NO WAY IN HELL THIS COULD HAPPEN TO ME. BUT ALLAH KNOWS BEST.

Secondly, Ceelbuh said the right thing and was right on the money.

and if you could go back on my comments before this, you will see why.

All women,(i shouldn't say all but some)safe themselves for this big day. so just imagine how it will feel like to share with someone else.

Now, put yourself in this girls shoes. How would you feel? you let me know.
Iyaah? @ 12/1/2006 4:38 PM EST
 I wonder why Hasna is so much overwhelmed with gratitudes
for the comments of ceelbuh. Hasna what is threatening u so
much that u can`t hide your feelings. Maybe you`re scared
that u will became one such a victim huh!. Hasna let me know
Why, ok!.
caraweelo @ 12/1/2006 2:54 PM EST
 This is new to our culture and tradition. I wouldn't call it haram, cause there is no hadith or suurah that banned this. I agree some of the brothers and sisters who mentioned that this could be economical and opportunity marriage, but again I wish them all the luck. Those of you blaming the Somaliand, for this marriage, I would say to you: at least this is consenting marriage between a man and 2 women, not like what happens in Marka, Baraawe & some other areas in the south which is keeping a women against her will.  
Hasna @ 11/30/2006 6:39 PM EST
 Thank you Ceelbuh thank you!!!!
ceelbuh @ 11/30/2006 6:23 PM EST
 Hiiraan didn't post my first message few weeks ago about this subject so i'll try again. I disagree with the idea of marrying two sisters at the same night and the same place. My resaoning is this, as Muslims we should stay home for the 1st 7 days and enjoy with each other, so am not sure how these people will be doing that? I can't see these people living in the same house? Let us image different houses, none of the sisters will enjoy being with their husban for the 1st 7 days. Forget about families and friends visiting these people for the 1st 7 days since they will be confused to what house he will be during the day. Oh and the other thing is why have a stupid wedding if you will be doing this disguisted thing? I called this sort of thing, show off. Plz look at these sisters, do they look happy to you guys? Not to me. One last thing, we need to stop blaming this sort of thing to the North Somalia since these are individuals who did thing and not the people of the North. Sorry if my English is not very clear, I wrote this fast while @ work. Thanx all.
malka @ 11/29/2006 12:33 PM EST
 well.
waxaan arkaa in gabdhihii soomaaliyeed ay nodeen cumi
iyo taano siduu dagaalku u dhacayba .
oo niman badan oo laga yaabo ineeysan gabdhuhu aysan
fiirin laheeyn ay kala dooranahayaan gabarba gadheey ka qurxan
tahay , taas waxaa la dhahaa gob jabtay taas oo ah gabdha
soomaaliyeed ee qurxa badan ooy dhurwaayadu ay
labo labo u guursanahayaan.
shame of you nimankoow .
Nin Rag Ah @ 11/29/2006 9:22 AM EST
 Congratulations.
Wooow, This is the best news that I heard/ read recently from our home country, Hurrah, Hurrah to both the Bride/grooms - Ismail & Gaasira & Shukri and the other Family too. Those among us like Bride Maids and Impotent Men (Who are unable to satisfy two Grooms) are making Wrong comments about these blessed Maraiges. Ismail Keep up the good job and never look back, we do really support you. May Allah make your Marraige Successful and fruitfull. Amiiiin
nasir107 @ 11/28/2006 2:55 AM EST
 there are things that only hargaysa ppl can do...and this is one of them
Abucar One @ 11/25/2006 4:37 PM EST
 Hey guys, don't look at the girls' faces for happiness.  I have been taking Somali wedding pictures for a long time. In all these times the bride always looked sad. The familiy, the relatives and the friends tried to make them smile and show happiness.  They had no success. The brides always looked sad. I don't know why, but that is the way they looked, and that is how these two brides look. For any clues of whether they are happy or not, look elsewhere, not at the photos.
farha @ 11/24/2006 5:41 PM EST
 shihiid! it is better to keep your mouth shut if you can't back up our cheap comments. hargaysa dhan ma blame garayn kartid based on what some ignorant person did. waxaa tahay dadka media ha aaminsan oo dhankasta loo kaxaysanko. waxaa fiican inaanad degaan dhan aanad wax xun ka sheegin ee ad hadalkaaga ka fiirsato.
Hasna @ 11/23/2006 10:53 PM EST
 Hallane bro,
Again, having 2 or 4 wives is not wrong but what i am trying to tell you is that you can't marry both or all of them at the same time.

Are you married? if you are, you will no what i am talking about. The first night is the most precious of all nights for a woman or man.

I can only hope that you're not Ignorant, read carefully bro. Be careful of what you're telling to others.

oh and Aboorey, you have something good going on. Don't ruin it!!!
sihaam @ 11/23/2006 7:15 PM EST
 this is not gonna ever and ever please ladies and geltman this not real  believe me or not
shihiid @ 11/23/2006 7:05 PM EST
 That is crazy laba gabdhood oo markaliya aqal lalagalaayo aad ayey u foolxuntahay
ilaahay waa kuubaneeyey 4 xaas laakiin waalaga fiicanyahay sidan waana wax ku cusub dhaqanka somalidu leedahay baryahan danbena hargaysa waxaa lagu arkayaa dhaqamo aan horay loo aqoon sida culimo lajidhdilo marka walaalayaal sidan siku dhaama waxan oo kalena yaysan dhicin thanks bye
Aboorey @ 11/23/2006 3:31 PM EST
 I have one lovely wife already but if I get lucky next time I would probably try this.
There is no harm in it at all :-).

“But if wishes were horses, beggars could ride.”


abdik @ 11/23/2006 2:03 PM EST
 I think sister Hasna knows what she is talking about. This guy not only disrected the two women and their families but also our marriage system.
hallane @ 11/23/2006 5:14 AM EST
 Hasna, my dear sister correct me if I am wrong. Do you have a haditha that stating marrying two women at the same time is wrong, if so please let me know I would love to educate myself. All I am saying is nothing wrong with that ofcourse Rasululah (S.A.W.) said you can have your wives live next to eachother. If you can effort it houses that are neighboring or rooms that next to eachother absolutly not in the same room Allahu Manajeynaa. So sister I don't think he is wrong in DIIN way maybe in the cultural situation is a shame. He disrespect the marwos and their families. What about if they are happy for it and that is the onlyway they can be satisfy I don't know.
Hasna @ 11/22/2006 9:48 PM EST
 Ok Hallane, Before you say something, make sure you now what you're talking about. This is not Prophet Mohamed (S.A.W) steps and he did not do this.

No one here is saying that marrying 2 women is bad but the fact that he married them on the same night.

Please go read the hadiths because i can go on and on about Naabi Mohamed (S.A.W) marriage and this is not even close to what he did.

oh, and while you're at it, check about people who say false things about Prophet Mohamed (S.A.W) and what will happen to them.

Peace to all.
wiliwiliq @ 11/22/2006 8:15 PM EST
 This is disgusting. Unislamic, out of somali culture.
It is action of satan on display.  
hallane @ 11/22/2006 8:01 PM EST
 maasha allah, ilahey hablahenu wuu ugar garay. wadada nabigeena caleyhi salatu wasalam inan ku dhaqaqno weeyan. haduu ilahey yirahdo walalayal taladeeda ma kujirnaa..
asad iman @ 11/22/2006 9:57 AM EST
 Duur joog nimadu waxay ay dadku badaa; Diin la'aan iyo Dulinimo
abdik @ 11/21/2006 11:18 PM EST
 Waryaa warta, leave our qaldaan brothers alone. :)

Considering all the negative image our brothers and sister up North have about us I don't think we need to make it worst for them. And by the way, why do you people think the courts are the solution to all of our problems?

warsameal @ 11/21/2006 8:59 PM EST
      waa nin nin ka tagay, waayo ilaahay markuu guurka ka hadlayey waxuu ku bilaabay labo labo sadex sadex iyo afar afar lagama bilaabin hal lakiin waa loogu danbaysiiyay oo waxaa la yiri kii wax matare ah halkiisa ha ku ekaado.
warta @ 11/21/2006 5:27 PM EST
 Woow..

Qaldaamiinta wa ka dareen, Maxkamadaha wa iney tagaan oo diinta geeyaan.

Reer Koraad are getin worst than Gaaladi.
farha @ 11/21/2006 4:19 PM EST
 Cajiib, this is unbelievable. aakhira so dhow walahi. am scare.Runtii markaan sheekadan layaabka leh akhristay waxaan isku dayay inaan markiiba wax ka sheegin dad aanan aqoon u lahayn gaara. marka aniga oo ka eega from a my point of view, waxaa dhici karta inay jiri karaan baahiyo ama wax ku khasbaya in labadan gabdhood ninkaan wada guursadaan, it could be financial problems or they may see this as their 'only" opportunity for"marriage", or even love could be the reason lol who knows. Non of us commentaries really don't know the motives behind it .farxad gabdhahan wajigooda kama muuqato, waad aragtaa inay ka xunyihiin waayo naagna hadii ay haysan lahayd a choice inay la guursato nag kale iyo in kale , waxay u badnaan lahayd inaanay la guursateen nin naag kale. wiil dhalin yaro ah weeye, masuuliyado waawayna dusha ayuu ku qaaday oo ka saaran labadiisan xaas. waxaan rajaynayaa inaanu hadhow noqon mid xamili kari waaya all of the responsibilities.  
Q @ 11/21/2006 11:19 AM EST
 I only got 1 question and that is which one is the wife no1 or they both are wife number 1 and if that is the case he has 3 spot left. lol!!!!!
Hasna @ 11/21/2006 10:34 AM EST
 For all of you brothers, who are thinking of doing this, SNAP OUT OF IT!!!!!

I know that our religion allows you to marry up to four wives but for ALLAH sake DO NOT MARRY THEM ON THE SAME NIGHT. I REPEAT DO NOT MARRY THEM ON THE SAME NIGHT.

Looking at this picture, I see two women who really don’t want to be there. They look forced, but ALLAH knows best.

Shortage of men?

1 sign that the world is near end.
lola @ 11/20/2006 11:54 PM EST
 what i canot get through my head is how a women will let her husband marry another women( i know it is allowed in islam) but i would not do it i would rather leave him.
abdik @ 11/20/2006 10:22 PM EST
 Now, listen if you gonna tell us a story like this give us a real link so we can read the story. What you posted is not a link.

Anyways if this is true the key word is "secret." Unlike this event that was public and everyone was aware of what was happening.

Anyways, I have heard before that two sickest cities in Somalia are Galgacyo and Hargeisa? What is with these people anyways?
qadro1 @ 11/20/2006 10:09 PM EST
 well is shortage of men......


there is another story that happenn in kalcoyo putlander

10 yrs girl who was giving birth and she maried to secret
a 40 yrs old men more information burtinle.com / mudug .com


somali is crazy ----non somali knows about it


Abdik @ 11/20/2006 10:04 PM EST
 Jamal, you mean in Somaliland right?
jamal-yusuf @ 11/20/2006 7:25 PM EST
 this is scary...cant beleive this happening in somalia...sad
Iyaah? @ 11/20/2006 4:43 PM EST
 From the look in thier eyes its pretty obvious that some
sort of a stiff competition is likely to ensue. I have
been looking at the pic for a while, & I don`t like the envious
look thats clearly manifested in the eyes of the woman at the right.
She looks like someone with some hidden motives. One such
motive I believe is: jealousy. Why is this guy putting himself
in whats an abvious impending disaster. Good luck to u man.

Abdik @ 11/20/2006 2:33 PM EST
 My wife wears a xijaab and I am prouf of that. I am not sure though if I would like if she wore indhashareer. Thats too much don't you think?
jabriil @ 11/20/2006 1:48 PM EST
 that wrong ok
miskiin @ 11/20/2006 11:33 AM EST
 They need XIJAAB. Brother Muslim (the groom) your wives need XIJAAB. Walaalka Muslimka ahow xaasaskaada xijaab u xidh. Fadlan waxaan ka codsataa rugaha internet ee Soomaalidda in ay joojin tusida dumarkaaga.
axmed_319 @ 11/20/2006 10:17 AM EST
 ''OMG the Hadith sat you can merry up to 4 wife’s but who cares if you
Merry same time or one by one this not the point, as long as they are happy with you
(The gals) allowed you to merry other girl with her at the same time.
is up to you. How big you’re in the game of the Ladies.

Those girls must be happy to share the man and other girls and women’s must learn from those young
Sister and start new Generations''


lol can u not see the first pic the jong lady on the left she is almost in tears i feel for her cos the other lady is bigger then her eheheheheh
she will end up doing every thing
djmoha @ 11/20/2006 9:34 AM EST
 haa waad salaaman tihiin dhamaan akhyaartiinani ...........bacda salaan horta maaha in lala uyaabo dhacdadan dhacday ninka ama ha wada guursado mar ama yaanu wada guursan waa mid u gaar ah isaga haday ka aqbalaan inuu mar arooskoodu wada dhacana maaha inaad ka dhigtaan wax hargeisa la soo baxday waa caadi shareecadana waa l waydiin doonaa .......waan idin arkaa topic ceeb ah ayaad ka dhigteen oo aad leedihiin hargeisa dhaqan xun bay la soo baxday....ba bilaahi tawfiiq
cabdulqaadirelm @ 11/20/2006 9:01 AM EST
 Waad salaaman tihiin dhamaan salaan kadib.
Run ahaanti sheekadan waa sheeko waalan una baahan dadkan in wax la baro

Waxaa jirta jaahilnimo meesha coz hadey cilmi u leeyihiin ama yaqaanaan
SHARAL CASAL ma ku kici laheyn sheekadan foosha xun.

TII LOOGA HOREEYA NINKA HA U LAABATO HOOYADEED
mohammed990 @ 11/20/2006 5:08 AM EST
 OMG the Hadith sat you can merry up to 4 wife’s but who cares if you
Merry same time or one by one this not the point, as long as they are happy with you
(The gals) allowed you to merry other girl with her at the same time.
is up to you. How big you’re in the game of the Ladies.

Those girls must be happy to share the man and other girls and women’s must learn from those young
Sister and start new Generations
shodha08 @ 11/20/2006 12:43 AM EST
 Oh ! surprised i have one question, what did say Quran & hatith,  , , am not sure if these women consented to marrying this guy or were forced/pressured by their parents.  In any case, it appears to me that the groom’s family are wealthy therefore could provide to both families.  

By looking at the pictures posted, I do not see happy faces.   They all look sad and withdrawn especially the girl on the right side of the groom.  

I wish them the best!
and good lucky
abdik @ 11/18/2006 5:27 PM EST
 Yeah. All of them look saddened. I think one of the ladies did not want her picture taken too.

considering this is the second tiem something like this happened in Hargeisa region and no one stop it, I guess this is "new" thing in somaliland.

Very soon we will read about some lowlife, raqiis guy with inherited money or something, marrying three women to out do the others. And Somaliland sites will post some pictures about that too as if its something to brag about.

Pathetic.
geesi @ 11/18/2006 4:57 PM EST
 I am not sure if these women consented to marrying this guy or were forced/pressured by their parents.  In any case, it appears to me that the groom’s family are wealthy therefore could provide to both families.  

By looking at the pictures posted, I do not see happy faces.   They all look sad and withdrawn especially the girl on the right side of the groom.  

I wish them the best!
TruthTeller @ 11/18/2006 4:17 PM EST
 Salaam to All,

This has to be understood whether it's Islamically correct or not, and then Judged accordingly. I don't know if it's Islamically correct, something to resarch though I guess.

Sihaam, cool down the jealousy sister, these people could be for real, sister calm it a bit. May be these two women are completely ok with it. Therefore not fair to say they are showing off.
Just a brotherly advice!
sihaam @ 11/18/2006 12:37 PM EST
 this too guys are making impreson for somali girls they making they are very cheap and it easy to get married two women one at the time . this is show off lady and gentleman don't believe this two guys just they want in ay dadka sawira dooda arkaan lagana sheekaysto layers
Mdbrawa @ 11/18/2006 4:00 AM EST
 Waa yaab, waa caayib, waa lama filaan, waa lama arag, lama maqal, wax walba ku sheeg, samee kolayba hadal uun baa ka dambeeya, shalay maanta ka dambeeysay, waa sida ay arintu u eg tahay, waana su'aal dhex meeraysa dadweynaha Somaliland & Somalia kii akhristaaba
Rog rogey oo shaan dheeyey arintin naga yaabisay ee lama arag ah, waa is afgarasho caan bixina weheliso yab yab.
yes sir @ 11/18/2006 2:24 AM EST
 !
yaab @ 11/17/2006 10:48 PM EST
 JJ please have some respect for Somalilanders since you have no knowledge from
yaab @ 11/17/2006 10:42 PM EST
 Sideedaba karti ayaa la iskudhaafay, marka xigtana "xaas" hadeey noqoto
waa ayada more than two or three labaneeyay. Intaa kadib, tani sida webkaan
loogu sheegay qisadan waa markii labaad mid dhacda.Whether it is Somaliland or Somalia we know not only in Somalia there are shortages of men but rather the whole wide world. I am don’t know for sure marring all four wives at the same time is forbidden or not but I know as long as you can treat them equally that included in the bed. That is that, Reer Barawe Naqsula ni menza we as reer waqooyi how could we leave our bride the first night without shagga dellic taking place? That is the night to remember the night you gif it all out, those whom you heard from mislead you therefore take that out of your mind.
one love for the brothers performed this ha ha ha ha wonderful it is.
abdik @ 11/17/2006 8:50 PM EST
 May be we should ask some of our Itahad members for answer but my guess its Haram because if it was not more people would have tried similar thing in the past. The fact that is not common practice in our culture, and muslim culture in general, gives a small clue that its probably Haaraam.

Any Shiikhs here?

But even if its Halal that does not mean its a great practice! Anyone who thinks this is a good idea is a fool. There are a lot of things I have heard are Halaal over the years and I probably would never tried them myself. For example I saw a snake the other day and an Arab guy wanted to convine it was Halaal! May be, I said to him, but as far as eating it I leave that to you.

I know having three or four wifes is Halaal too in our religion but no way in hell would I marry another or third while I stil have my beatiful wife around. No way in hell.

And oh yeah, I am a devout Muslim too guys so Itahads don't attack me ok. :)
Somali King @ 11/17/2006 7:28 PM EST
 damnnnnn hargeisa don't play huh?

I wonder how he was able to convice them considering how many sisters flip out about second wives, or is that only in Canada? anyway those of you saying this is haram can you pls do us the favor of providing the ayaa or hadith stating that? i'm not trying to start a debate but rather tryin' to become educated on the topic(incase i decide to pull it off,lol). remember you can't just use your emotions to decide what's haram/halal. in terms of somali culture we have both good/bad so since there things that are tens times worse than this in our culture,who cares what culture has to say about this wedding as long the diin permits and the couple are happy. I just hope too many don't get involved in their relationship making it difficult for them.
Abdik @ 11/17/2006 4:34 PM EST
 I think nothing happens the first name. Ok, so I heard this rumor. I apologized ahead of time if offends anyone considering that Somalis are easily offended these days. But when I was little kid in Baraawe I used to hear that reer waqooyigu don't do anything the first night? That they believe the woman is the man's "marti" or guest that nigth. So the second night thats when they get "on" with the business of ....,

Now if that is the case I guess both women pictured above did not get lucky that night. But considering the look at that guy's face I highly doubt thats what happen. I think the women took turns pleasing the guy that night. What do you think?

Ok, I don't want to know what you think. This is too freaky of a story for me. I kept hearing about the open bars and disco clubs in hargeisa but I never thought I would heard this too. Sickening.
kadir @ 11/17/2006 4:26 PM EST
 HAHAHAHAHA CAJIIB
SU'AAL HABEENKA UGU HOREEYSO TEE ISKA LEH
WIXI KA DANBEEYO WAA LAGA HESHIIN KARAAHE?
mohammed990 @ 11/17/2006 3:14 PM EST
 braaaaaaaaaaab braaaaaaaam Pimb this guy he is im next
that is the way to play the game no need to hide things.
HE is a soldet!!!!!!! but the one on the left shes not happy after two nites shes going


wich one he will start from?????????
one bed with both?
i want to know tese things
Abdik @ 11/17/2006 1:44 PM EST
 loooooooooooooooool

Walaahi this made me laugh really hard. I was talking on the phone to my wife when I read this and she too almost went into labor laughing along. loooool

This is new to our culture. And I don't like it.

When ever I think I seen all I need see about my people, Somali people, I see another amazing thing like this. And by the way like the brother on top asked did he take both women to the same house afterwards? I mean, he must have done that!

Waryaa, Soomalidu ma waalatey? How come no one stop this from happening? Its time like this, only times, I think the courts may not be that bad of an idea after all.
sandhere @ 11/17/2006 1:22 PM EST
 kool!!!,I think he got them at whole sell price......
yasiin @ 11/17/2006 12:47 PM EST
 this is barmy.i have listen this story from bbc once
and this is weird.as one reader said before,the
amaried man must spend with is bride for a period of
one wk,i doubt this geuzer was shagging both ladies
at the sometimes.
i think the jury are out there.let ulummahs educated
us on this dengerous path.am not sure if its haram
cause both ladies are happy of the event and they too
stand with man without envy.
bloodmoney @ 11/17/2006 9:34 AM EST
 halal or Hiram? that's the question!

i know for fact that this is new to the somali culture and yes some people are trying to change the somali culture by trying to introduce new things. what's wrong with you people?

JJ @ 11/17/2006 4:15 AM EST
 It must be men's shortage in Hargiesa. therefore more girls available than boys. Please do not repeat again, send the girls to South as "Heeran"
JJ @ 11/17/2006 4:14 AM EST
 It must be men's shortage in Hargiesa. therefore more girls available than boys. Please do not repeat again, send the girls to South as "Heeran"
Xaggar @ 11/17/2006 3:36 AM EST
 Cimrigaadoo dheeraaday Geel dhalaayuu ku tusaa. Hargayso dhaqamo badan oo soomaalida ku cusub waa lagu yaqiin; tanise maxaa ku xigi doona?
yes sir @ 11/17/2006 12:24 AM EST
 Wow! I am loving the scene, this is like dream come true for some guy? I am just curious is it groupie or the will have seperate spots? am exploring this idea for myself...any two lucky females out there!
jabriil @ 11/17/2006 12:16 AM EST
 wwwwwwwwwww soo nice
somaalidoon @ 11/16/2006 11:42 PM EST
 This thing happened in Somalia or in Somaliland?
Or is it all the same?  Please educate us .we are confused.
waryaa @ 11/16/2006 11:15 PM EST
 What a wierd world Somalia is becoming
lola @ 11/16/2006 11:00 PM EST
 this completely haram, the quran clearly states a bride is in title to spend the first week with her new husband without any distruption. somalis are greating wierder by the second. it is not our tradition neither is it our religion. i hope they get divorce after the first moth........................................................................................just kidding might their marriage last, even though it is wierd and may allah bless with children and happiness........................................ameeen
qadro1 @ 11/16/2006 10:23 PM EST
 this is crazy subhaanah... what islam say about it..

every where  u go is crazy pple...... i hope this would be last
couple .....

 
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